How To Start A Gratitude Journal

Most people wake up and go straight to complaining about the weather, needing sleep, and having a headache.

What happens then? They now feel unmotivated to exercise, they grab something quickly to eat, and sit down to work uninspired and gloomy.

I was the same. I would start every day feeling grumpy from the get-go. That would then spiral into feeling unmotivated to exercise, prepare a healthy breakfast, and sit down to do work.

Towards the end of last year, I decided to start writing every morning. I read about gratitude journaling and thought that the idea of it sounded interesting. My main goal was to improve my mindset early in the morning and make myself start the day feeling positive, inspired and focused.

What if I could get up and immediately turn my thoughts to positive aspects of my life?

Well here comes gratitude journaling.

I saw it online, people writing a few things they were grateful for every morning.

As I am not someone who writes a lot in any journal, I thought that this would be doable. Just a few sentences each morning is 2-3 minutes of my time.

Little did I know that this would be the start of a lasting, positive habit in my life. One that would change my days, and the way I approach my life.

So let’s find out how to start a gratitude journal.

What Is A Gratitude Journal

A gratitude journal is anything that helps you track the things you’re grateful for. While it can be a notebook, think beyond the page: It could be an app on your phone or even a file on your computer.

The process is important, not so much the method. Every day, or weekly, you think about things you are grateful for.

If you do decide to choose a journal, consider whether you’ll be using it exclusively for gratitude journaling or for daily planning as well.

Sometimes, combining planning and gratitude can be a good thing, and may reduce the number of journals you keep on your desk. I use my journal daily to write 3 things I am grateful for, but if you are using a Bullet Journal, you can create a gratitude log where you set aside a spread to log a sentence a day of something you are thankful for.

It is up to you to either dedicate a whole notebook to gratitude or merge it with a planner or bullet journal you already use.

Gratitude Journal Benefits

There are several studies that show that journaling about gratitude has a lot of benefits. Far greater benefits than journaling about your problems and events that displeased you.

People who wrote about gratitude were more optimistic and felt better about their lives. They also exercised more and had fewer visits to physicians.

Here are some of the benefits that were noticed:

Greater connection to others
Increased personal joy
Better Sleep
Exercising more regularly
Lowering symptoms of physical pain

Personally, the biggest difference I noticed is my overall mood during the day. Turning my thoughts to the most cherished things in my life, and sometimes to the things that we do not notice or we take for granted has improved my life in many ways.

I am more regular with my exercise
I pay more attention to the food I eat
I am in a better mood overall
I feel motivated and focused

How To Keep A Gratitude Journal

The number one error when you start writing gratitude sentences is to keep them very general. If it is just a simple statement, like I am grateful for my kids, or I am grateful for my house it does not sink in.

You need to be more detailed as it helps you connect better with the emotion.

So what you need to do is describe the feeling better:

I am grateful for my kids because they make me laugh.

I am grateful for my kids because they bring me so much joy.

I am grateful for my kids because they bring a different perspective to my life.

There are many ways you can keep a gratitude journal. And for sure you will find many options in your local bookstore.

But I believe that the best things in life are free. There is no need to pay a lot of money for a journal that has gratitude sections printed.

What you need is just a notebook and a pen. Then you can decide how you want to approach your gratitude journaling.

You can write down 3 things you are grateful for every morning, you can write it in the evening when you reflect on the day that has passed.

You can choose to write a page of gratitude.

It really comes down to what you want to do, and how long you want to write.

My routine is very simple. Every morning when I sit at my desk to work with a cup of coffee, I first take out my gratitude notebook and write down three things I am grateful for. I write whatever comes to my mind.

One day it is about kids, husband, and parents, the other I talk about trees, sky, views or my pet.

My routine is simple because I know that it is not easy to introduce a new habit. Once the habit sticks, then I can go ahead and improve it if needed.

What Should I Write in a Gratitude Journal?

When you start writing for the first time, do not focus too much on making your writing perfect.

Your first step is to introduce a new habit of writing gratitude every day or once a week, whatever timeline you prefer.

After you introduce this habit, then I suggest you take a bit more time when you write. Spend a few minutes thinking about the feeling a gratitude thought creates in your chest, try feeling the gratitude and joy inside yourself while you write.

To make the whole process more interesting, you can also introduce a daily category for your gratitude journaling. On Monday you can focus on relationships, on Tuesday on work, on Wednesday on health, on Thursday you can focus on nature.

This gives you a daily topic to write about and think about just as you are about to start your day. And makes the whole process of writing even more interesting.

When Should I Write A Gratitude Journal?

You can write in your gratitude journal both in the morning and in the evening. Both have great benefits, it all depends on your lifestyle and what you are trying to achieve.

I journal in the morning as I want to start the day with positive thoughts. I am usually grumpy in the morning so I want something that can help me lift my mood up.

I stack this habit with my morning coffee routine so I know I will not forget it.

If you on the other hand want something that will put you in a good mood before going to bed then gratitude journaling is a great way to reflect on the day that has passed.

It is a way to relax yourself and a far better option than staring at your phone screen before sleep.

Gratitude Journal Prompts

As you start to write a gratitude journal, there will be days when you cannot think of anything to say.

On these days I find Journal Prompts very useful. They give you a new idea you can write about and refresh your journaling practice.

Here are some ideas for you:

What is the most beautiful thing you saw today?
List three silly things your kids did today.
What made you smile unexpectedly?
Who do you love?
Who did you talk to today that made you happy?
Look out the window, what’s something you’re grateful for outside?
What is the most inspirational book/movie you read/watched this week?
What is your favorite thing about your job?
Reflect on a time you made a mistake and what you learned. What are you grateful for about that learning experience?
What is one thing you love about your partner, parent, or child?
What are you most looking forward to doing this week?
What do you like about your home?
When you think about your childhood, remember your fondest memory.

Just remember that you can write about anything, no matter how big or small. If you’re still at a loss, here are some unexpected gratitude journal ideas to help you get over that case of writer’s block.

People to write about:

A person you haven’t spoken to in a while
Someone who lives far away
Your kid’s teachers
Your coworkers
Someone you have a hard time getting along with
A musician, author or artist whose work particularly inspires you
A stranger who brightened your day

Things to write about:

Your pet
Your favorite food
Things you use daily
Your job
Activities or hobbies you enjoy
Your body
Your sense of smell, sight, taste etc.

Places to write about:

The city you live in
Your favorite vacation destination
Your desk at work
Your bed
Your neighborhood park
Your hometown
Your favorite books

Ideas to write about:

A family tradition
A silly moment
A problem you’re facing
A recent accomplishment
The current season
Something new you learned recently

Conclusion

If you struggle with a negative mindset in the morning, then gratitude journaling is a game changer. We often do not realize how much our own thoughts block our progress. How we focus on negative things that are going on, and that affects our daily routines and what we can accomplish.

I highly recommend this practice.

It can be as simple as writing a few sentences in the morning but it will have lasting benefits in your life.

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